By Carole Nicolaides | Date Submitted: 01/09/01
Category: Business:Entrepreneur
Keywords: business building, entreprenuers, success,
marketing, coaching
Summary: Success comes easier to those who have a plan. Learn
how to develop a strategy for your success.
Achieving Success In Life Is Easier Than You Might Think
By Carole Nicolaides, Copyright © 2000, All Rights Reserved
www.intentionalsuccess.com
Achieving success does not mean you must be perfect, work overly
hard or be especially gifted or lucky in life. All of us want to
achieve success, whatever that means to us. The real question here
is, “how many people realize what it takes to be successful”?
Many people think that in order to achieve success you must bite,
claw and step over dead bodies if you have to. Yes, sometimes,
successful people use all these tactics. However, eventually it will
be said that they achieved success not because of who they were but
what they did. In order to be truly successful and admired you
should operate with full integrity.
The key to achieving excellence in life is to use all your hidden
talents, skills and knowledge in the very best way you have
available. What do you need to do to unlock that dormant giant that
lies within you? What is it that you need to do in order to see the
desired results?
Below are some tips that will help you focus on and foster the
life you want. In order to get the results that you truly wish, I
challenge you to take a free afternoon or evening and reflect on the
following questions. Read them carefully and write down some of tips
that describe who you are and what you want to achieve the future?
By doing this exercise you’re allowing your subconscious mind to
evolve and find the answers for you!
1. Are you living your passion? Do you love what you are doing?
If the answer is no, you need to devote most of your efforts to
identifying what your passion is. Many people live their lives
without living their passions, not putting their heart fully into
what they do. Research shows that truly successful people are the
ones that really love what they are doing.
2. Be persistent until you succeed Many people have great
ideas and the vision to succeed; yet, they give up too soon when
things go down hill. At times that things go slow or not as you
expected, simply ask yourself what you can learn from the
experience. The universe never lies. There is always a truth we can
learn and apply to our next experience.
3. Learn and grow through the process You cannot afford to
stop learning on a daily basis. The times are gone that a solid
education and a few certifications guaranteed you a successful
career. In today’s market you need skills across all levels. You
need to be able to blend your technical skills with soft business
skills. You cannot afford not to be technically competent even if
you are an art major. Broaden your horizons and accept learning from
other fields as a natural process. Learn and allow yourself time to
grow. Allow yourself time to apply the newly learned skills.
4. Master your emotions Getting angry, disappointed or fed
up from time to time is a natural part of life. Successful people
feel this way, too. The difference lies in how successful people
handle these emotions. Once you are calm, go directly to the person
that upset you. Make it clear you are there for resolution. Give
your best effort to rectify the situation. Handling yourself with
grace during difficult circumstances is a clear sign that you’ve
risen above the petty level of others.
5. Build a support group Find people that will support
you. Those in your life that continually take but never give are not
considered supportive. Increase your circle of friends to include
productive relationships with others. Allow new people to enter your
life and add energy to you.
6. Become personal Remember birthdays, important
conversations and other events. People value personal attention.
This makes you more memorable to others because you cared personally
about them.
7. Do not focus only on the money If you’re focusing too
much on numbers then you will eventually fail - big time. Do things
from your heart. Going that extra mile is what is going to set you
apart from similar services and products. Focus on doing a good job
rather than collecting payment.
8. Delegate- Delegate- Delegate No matter what your job
is, you cannot do everything on your own. There are always ways of
delegating some of your workload to others. The key to delegating
effectively is not to give up complete supervision. Make sure the
people you are delegating to know what is expected from them. Follow
up on occasion to be sure all is going well.
9. Respect time - do not waste it foolishly- treat time like
money Many people complain about not having enough time. If this
is you, try focusing only on things that will provide you with
value. Don’t waste time in events that do not fit your present
situation. Learn to listen to your inner voice. Your intuition is
like a muscle- train it wisely.
10. Give away some of your services- knowledge- money
Successful people understand the principle of what goes around comes
around. When you share your time, talents and money with others, you
will be repaid – many times over – by others sharing with you.
Follow these tips and you will see for yourself that it is not
difficult to be truly successful in life! Carole Nicolaides is
President of Intentional Success Coaching offering Personal Success
Coaching, Marketing, Business Planning and Internet Success
Consulting to small businesses & large organizations. Subscribe
to Carole’s FREE EZine at newsletter@intentionalsuccess.com or
visit her at http://www.intentionalsuccess.com to book your FREE
coaching session.
E-mail: carole@intentionalsuccess.com
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